Sunday, August 28, 2022

Not Fall Yet...

That title is my hint to Mother Earth that it's time to get Fall into full throttle pronto. School starts when summer is barely half over. My mind immediately goes into Fall mode but it's not even close to Fall yet! But even though the temperature does not feel like it by the time September rolls around I am definitely drinking pumpkin spice lattes, baking breads, and reading all the horror, mystery, and thrillers I can get my hands on! And I may or may not start decorating my house with all things Halloween after Labor Day...

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G did start school at the beginning of last week. So two full weeks back into it! He is loving and hating it all at the same time. The dreaded PE is in session and he's been running the mile and doing lots of pushups and situps! It's good for him. And the getting up really early again is also not his favorite. But he's loving his classes and talking with his friends so yeah just about right with the loving and hating. 

He also had his first school dance of the year on Friday. He was unsure if he wanted to go because a couple of his friends weren't going. But he said he would still go and when we picked him up he was laughing with other friends and said he had a great time. Yay!

Another beautiful hike last week my hiking buddies...

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My mother got Covid last week along with everyone else in the house but she's the one most vulnerable even after all the shots and boosters. They had to take her into the hospital to make sure she recovered on her own. Thank goodness she was only in there for a few days and the treatments went really well. We were able to visit all masked up. I am so grateful she is doing well and that everyone else in the household is also recovering. It's been a few days but everyone is still testing positive even without symptoms. It's amazing how long people can still test positive. Grateful for these small favors.

Posts this week:

2 book reviews on Sundial by Catriona Ward and A Darker Shade of Magic by V.E. Schwab.

Currently Reading 

I've been reading these almost all year but I am determined to finish them off eventually. I go through weeks where I'll read consistently and then weeks where I don't. Like I said one day...

Enlightenment Now: The Case for Reason, Science, Humanism, and Progress by Steven Pinker

Secret City: The Hidden History of Gay Washington by Jamie Kirchick

I'm always trying to read a parenting book or self-help book or two...

What Do You Say? How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson

The Great Experiment: Why Diverse Democracies Fall Apart and How They Can Endure by Yascha Mounk

A Gathering of Shadows (Shades of Magic #2) by V.E. Schwab

I also just picked up The Middle Ages: A Graphic History by Eleanor Janega. It's hilarious and very informative and the cartoons are funny. I love history books make me laugh and keep me informed! 

And because spooky season is around the corner...The Hollow Places by T. Kingfisher


How to Be Perfect: The Correct Answer to Every Moral Question
by Michael Schur. I keep forgetting to put this in my posts. I've been reading/listening to this one since the start of the summer with my friend who lives out-of-state for our philosophy book club (of two). Schur created The Good Place and he shares all the moral philosophy he researched to create the TV show. The audiobook has basically the whole cast, too, reading various quotes, etc. It's fantastic. One of the best philosophy books I've read in a long time!

Read




Sundial
by Catriona Ward


A Darker Shade of Magic (Shades of Magic #1) by V.E. Schwab


Movies Watched:

There's always been something wrong with Esther

Orphan: First Kill 
(2022) Paramount+

My Thoughts:

If you enjoyed the first movie Orphan this will be a fun little prequel. Not great but fun.


No one just disappears.

Horror in the High Desert
(2021) on Amazon Prime

My Thoughts:

This is one of those fake documentary-type horrors/found-footage. It was made during the Covid lockdowns so it's super simple and a bit cheesy but I liked it. Kind of weird and creepy. Just what I was looking for at the time.


The dead shall inherit the earth.

Land of the Dead
(2005) watched on Shudder

My Thoughts:

This is the last in George Romero's zombie series. And it had Simon Baker from The Mentalist in it so I figured I would give it a try this weekend. Not bad. Stupid plot and the dialogue was even dumber but it was entertaining and the actors were pretty great. 

TV Watched:


I'm still watching Star Trek: TNG. Now season five! This season is really good. I forgot how many good ones they have. Like this is the first season with consistently good episodes. Well, some of the middle episodes are pretty ho-hum.

I finished off The Sandman on Netflix, which I really really enjoyed. Can't wait for the next season. And Only Murders in the Building on Hulu. I love this show. Can't wait til next season already. Seeing Martin Short and Steve Martin together again is just fantastic and it has been my little happy place this summer.


Joining up with Deb from Readerbuzz and her Sunday Salon.


Saturday, August 27, 2022

Book Reviews: Sundial, A Darker Shade of Magic


Sundial
by Catriona Ward

I loved her previous book The Last House on Needless Street! Such a twist and had no clue what was coming for so long. It's truly hard to create a book like that again...I liked Sundial. But I did not love it. It took a really long time to get into it and while there were plenty of surprises towards the end, it wasn't enough for me. It was really hard to sympathize with any of the characters and I felt like the characters were serving the plot instead of having some real motivation. But yeah, it's still a horrific and tragic story but not one I'd recommend whole-heartedly like I did her other book.

Rob has a past. Her husband is abusive and now her youngest daughter is sick and maybe her oldest daughter is to blame? She must take her oldest daughter Callie back to her childhood home of Sundial. She must face what's truly real and what happened to her before Sundial so she can save her family.

Catriona Ward is creative. The way she can plot out these stories is just remarkable. While this one was not my favorite I will still be looking forward eagerly to her next book!


A Darker Shade of Magic
 (Shades of Magic #1) by V.E. Schwab

I had a great time with this one! It reads fast and I loved the world building and the characters. Sometimes you get one or the other and I really felt like she did a great job building both up without being a really long high-fantasy series.

There are four Londons. Yes a multiverse. And only antari can pass through the worlds. Black London has been lost to magic for long time now. White London sucks magic dry, Red London is blooming and booming with magic, and Grey London...well, that's our world. Magic has been long-gone and we make do with our guns and industry rather than magic.

Cue in Kell who is the antari of the Red London world. He takes messages between each London. White London is plotting. And Kell is saddled with a forbidden bit of Black London. He is unexpectedly saved and then subsequently robbed by a woman named Lila in Grey London. They eventually team up eventually, cuz of course they do! This forbidden stone from Black London must be destroyed and kept out of those hands that would use it to conquer and destroy the other Londons.

The plot gets a bit muddy but overall it's funny and the worlds of the different Londons are intriguing. She uses the greats to draw from but makes the magical and fantastical worlds her own.

This is the first of three.

Thursday, August 18, 2022

Cat Thursday: Back to School!

 


Welcome to the weekly meme (hosted by Michelle at True Book Addict) that celebrates the wonders and sometime hilarity of cats! Join us by posting a favorite lolcat pic you may have come across, famous cat art or even share with us pics of your own beloved cat(s). It's all for the love of cats! 

Tis that time of year again! Back to school! And the internet kitties will help us all celebrate...






Monday, August 15, 2022

School Is Back in Session!

 G is about to start 8th grade! I can't believe it. Summer went by so fast. We made it camping and a small weekend trip to Idaho to see friends and enjoy The Chicks concert. And I have been hiking a lot and seeing some beautiful mountains in preparations for my big hike next month.

We have been having a lot of rain and thunder storms out our way. Summer storms are normal but this has been more than I remember in a long long time.

G had is back-to-school night this last week and he got excited to get back to it...well, at least a teensy more excited. I'll take it! I remember always being a little bit anxious but also entwined was the excitement of a new year and possibilities ahead. I wish that for him and hope nothing but great things for his last year of middle school.

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We enjoyed a lovely camping trip to Mirror Lake up the Uintah Mountains. And I finished up one of my favorite puzzles. She's a beauty. The various paintings in the series are all gorgeous and would like to collect them all.

So big changes with school setting in this week...I'm just hoping we can all get back into and still enjoy summer as fall is soon upon us!


Currently Reading 

Enlightenment Now: The Case for Reason, Science, Humanism, and Progress by Steven Pinker

Secret City: The Hidden History of Gay Washington by Jamie Kirchick

What Do You Say? How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson


The Great Experiment: Why Diverse Democracies Fall Apart and How They Can Endure by Yascha Mounk

A Darker Shade of Magic (Darker Shades #1) by V.E. Schwab




Read



Leviathan Falls
 (The Expanse #9) by James S.A. Correy. (reviewed earlier).



The Hacienda 
by Isabel Cañas

Publisher's Summary:

In the overthrow of the Mexican government, Beatriz’s father is executed and her home destroyed. When handsome Don Rodolfo Solórzano proposes, Beatriz ignores the rumors surrounding his first wife’s sudden demise, choosing instead to seize the security his estate in the countryside provides. She will have her own home again, no matter the cost.

But Hacienda San Isidro is not the sanctuary she imagined.

When Rodolfo returns to work in the capital, visions and voices invade Beatriz’s sleep. The weight of invisible eyes follows her every move. Rodolfo’s sister, Juana, scoffs at Beatriz’s fears—but why does she refuse to enter the house at night? Why does the cook burn copal incense at the edge of the kitchen and mark its doorway with strange symbols? What really happened to the first Doña Solórzano?

Beatriz only knows two things for certain: Something is wrong with the hacienda. And no one there will help her.

Desperate for help, she clings to the young priest, Padre Andrés, as an ally. No ordinary priest, Andrés will have to rely on his skills as a witch to fight off the malevolent presence haunting the hacienda and protect the woman for whom he feels a powerful, forbidden attraction. But even he might not be enough to battle the darkness.

Far from a refuge, San Isidro may be Beatriz’s doom.

My Thoughts:

I really loved this one! It had some fun throwbacks to Rebecca and the Goth feeling of dark and foreboding and forbidden passion. Just what I needed.

We follow both Beatriz and Padre Andres as they each have different paths that lead them to our point in the book. Lots of flashbacks and things unhidden as the story progresses. And some of those scenes are truly terrifying.

I'm definitely coming back for more.




Aru Shah and the Song of Death 
(Pandava#2) by Roshani Chokshi

Publisher's Summary:

Aru is only just getting the hang of this whole Pandava thing when the Otherworld goes into full panic mode. The god of love's bow and arrow have gone missing, and the thief isn't playing Cupid. Instead, they're turning people into heartless fighting-machine zombies. If that weren't bad enough, somehow Aru gets framed as the thief. If she doesn't find the arrow by the next full moon, she'll be kicked out of the Otherworld. For good. But, for better or worse, she won't be going it alone. Along with her soul-sister, Mini, Aru will team up with Brynne, an ultra-strong girl who knows more than she lets on, and Aiden, the boy who lives across the street and is also hiding plenty of secrets. Together they'll battle demons, travel through a glittering and dangerous serpent realm, and discover that their enemy isn't at all who they expected.

My Thoughts:

It was great to revisit this series. G and I are really loving this. We are now on book 3 and no more re-reads left! Three books to go to finish this series off!

I like the issues these books bring up. Loyalty, family, friends, trusting yourself, and letting new people in. Also, you know, puberty and feelings for friends and such. All great themes throughout. Also, she brings up sexism in these stories and how sometimes people want and need to be remembered differently. And it's also just really funny. G will laugh multiple times while I'm reading and I'll even have a slight chuckle or two.



Memory's Legion
 by James S.A. Correy 

My Thoughts:

This contains all of the short stories written over the years for The Expanse. Also the last short story that takes place after the last book is in it.

Some were better than others. I liked the ones that brought more insight into our main characters. But overall, they were all interesting and had relevance for the world we've been following for so long! Highly recommended if you love the series.



Movies Watched:

I watched a lot of movies these summer nights with the family, friends, and by myself. I'll just throw out some highlights!

Feel the need...the need for speed

Top Gun: Maverick
(2022) in the theater

My Thoughts:

Everyone is losing their shit over this one. I mean yeah, it was fun. Those scenes with the jets were fricking cool. And I can see why this is the movie America needed right now. I get it. I really do.

But yeah, that plot? 😂 And Tommy boy just leaves a bad taste in my mouth...


Romance is a lot like baseball. It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you play the game.

Bull Durham
 (1988) on Amazon Prime

My Thoughts:

This is apparently the best baseball movie ever. I'm not a huge baseball fan but I do like a good sports movie regardless of whether or not I actually play, watch, or follow the sport in real life. This was a really interesting movie. Susan Sarandon is hot! She wins this movie forever and ever. So glad I took the time to watch.


Work together or die alone

The 355
 (2022) watched on Amazon Prime

My Thoughts:

This is not a well-loved movie. But I got out of it what I expected. Stupid plot but I loved the fights and the way the actresses worked together. It's not perfect but I didn't need it to be. 


Hit the high seas


The Sea Beast 
(2022). Netflix

My Thoughts:

It was cute even though predictable. It's got pirates and silly songs and G enjoyed it. So I won't complain too much.


The one is not the only

Thor: Love and Thunder
 (2022). Saw in theater.

My Thoughts:

Another fun edition to the Thor movies. Taika Waititi is fantastic as always. I'm not sure it's as good as Ragnarok but I'm OK with that. The marvel formula can get a bit old but I always love returning to familiar characters and places. The cameos are pretty hilarious too.

TV Watched:


I'm still watching Star Trek: TNG. Now season five! This season is really good. I forgot how many good ones they have. Like this is the first season with consistently good episodes.

Started The Sandman on Netflix. Really good so far. Loving the whole fantastical element and contemplating how weird studios are when WB can't sell off this series to its own HBO Max network and sells it to Netflix! Same with Ted Lasso...that was made by NBC and sold off to Apple! Weird.

Also binged my way through The Staircase on HBO. That case fascinates me in so many ways. 


Joining up with Deb from Readerbuzz and her Sunday Salon.

Thursday, July 28, 2022

Cat Thursday: Hot Summer Days

 


Welcome to the weekly meme (hosted by Michelle at True Book Addict) that celebrates the wonders and sometime hilarity of cats! Join us by posting a favorite lolcat pic you may have come across, famous cat art or even share with us pics of your own beloved cat(s). It's all for the love of cats! 

It's that time again of summer, those d*g days...pardon my French...let's commiserate with the kitties!








Book Review: Leviathan Falls by James S.A. Corey

 Leviathan Falls (Expanse #9) by James S.A. Corey

Publisher's Summary:

The Laconian Empire has fallen, setting the thirteen hundred solar systems free from the rule of Winston Duarte. But the ancient enemy that killed the gate builders is awake, and the war against our universe has begun again.

In the dead system of Adro, Elvi Okoye leads a desperate scientific mission to understand what the gate builders were and what destroyed them, even if it means compromising herself and the half-alien children who bear the weight of her investigation. Through the wide-flung systems of humanity, Colonel Aliana Tanaka hunts for Duarte’s missing daughter. . . and the shattered emperor himself. And on the Rocinante, James Holden and his crew struggle to build a future for humanity out of the shards and ruins of all that has come before.

As nearly unimaginable forces prepare to annihilate all human life, Holden and a group of unlikely allies discover a last, desperate chance to unite all of humanity, with the promise of a vast galactic civilization free from wars, factions, lies, and secrets if they win.

But the price of victory may be worse than the cost of defeat.

My Thoughts:

I did it! The final installment of this incredible series is finished. It's sad but satisfying. I have grown to love these characters so much. I'm sad to see them go but I am happy with the ending and where the characters went by the end.

The authors really took their time to understand a future that isn't completely utopian for humanity with each (like Star Trek) but one that still has hope and faith in humanity to keep plugging along and trying do its best with the ups and downs along the way.

Holden with his eternal optimism and hope, Naomi learning how to lead and accept herself and her life choices, Alex and finding his family, and Amos? well...Amos stays Amos.

I am really sad that Amazon cancelled the show before the last three books were finished. It's a travesty.


Saturday, July 16, 2022

June...Where Did You Go?

This summer is flying by. That's good. It means we're busy and having fun. Birthday came and went, Father's Day, I got a new tattoo, and G went to space camp. And I even got in a hike or two. 

I have not read very much this summer. I'm reading big books and it seems like I'm not actually finishing any. It's a weird reading time for me. I'm in a bit of a slump. But I'm still really enjoying what I'm reading; it's just taking me a lot longer than normal.

And I have only just barely finished one book today since my last update...😅. We shall see how my focus goes the rest of this month.

We've got a small camping trip at the end of the month and a quick weekend trip up to Boise at the beginning of August.

Also trying to get in a lot more hiking than usual. Two of my friends and I are planning on hiking a local peak that is 15ish miles in one day towards the middle of August. We just completed a 6-miler and have plans for a 10 miler in a couple of weeks. Plus I'm getting my son out for one in a few days and the next week one on my own. I haven't hiked this peak since I was 24 years old! It's been a really really long time. It's a fantastic goal for me. I'm excited. I've got a few in-between hikes to do to make sure I'm really ready...😬

My friend Melissa just moved with her family. Her son and mine are great friends and it's a huge blow for all of us. They're just a state over so at least it's not super far but far enough. Two great friends have moved this year! But we are heading up there next month for her son's birthday and a concert to see The Chicks! I'm not a big concert-goer but I'm excited for this one.

Now our car broke down! We are hoping they get it all fixed before our camping trip in two weeks... yikes.

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Melissa and I on a night out right before she moved away 

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This was so hard! That cat killed me. But it was sure fun.

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Top of Grandeur Peak

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Selfie on the way up! It was sooooo hot.

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The other side of the peak


Currently Reading 


Enlightenment Now: The Case for Reason, Science, Humanism, and Progress
 by Steven Pinker

Free Speech: A History from Socrates to Social Media by Jacob Mchangama

The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America's Great Migration by Isabel Wilkerson

Leviathan Falls (The Expanse #9) by James S.A. Correy. Last book in the series!

Secret City: The Hidden History of Gay Washington by Jamie Kirchick

What Do You Say? How to Talk with Kids to Build Motivation, Stress Tolerance, and a Happy Home by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson

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Unwinding Anxiety: New Science Shows How to Break the Cycles of Worry and Fear to Heal Your Mind
 by Judson Brewer

Publisher's Summary:

We are living through one of the most anxious periods any of us can remember. Whether facing issues as public as a pandemic or as personal as having kids at home and fighting the urge to reach for the wine bottle every night, we are feeling overwhelmed and out of control. But in this timely book, Judson Brewer explains how to uproot anxiety at its source using brain-based techniques and small hacks accessible to anyone.

We think of anxiety as everything from mild unease to full-blown panic. But it's also what drives the addictive behaviors and bad habits we use to cope (e.g. stress eating, procrastination, doom scrolling and social media). Plus, anxiety lives in a part of the brain that resists rational thought. So we get stuck in anxiety habit loops that we can't think our way out of or use willpower to overcome. Dr. Brewer teaches us map our brains to discover our triggers, defuse them with the simple but powerful practice of curiosity, and to train our brains using mindfulness and other practices that his lab has proven can work.

Distilling more than 20 years of research and hands-on work with thousands of patients, including Olympic athletes and coaches, and leaders in government and business, Dr. Brewer has created a clear, solution-oriented program that anyone can use to feel better - no matter how anxious they feel.

My Thoughts: 

This is an excellent book and teaching mindfulness and how to use that to understand our triggers and how they cause bad habits. Being curious and mindful and using self-compassion allows us to figure out where and why our bad habits come from. 

He starts off a bit about his background and how he came into mindfulness and how it helped him get through medical school. The beginning chapters start off small and in sizeable chunks and each chapter builds from there. I'll need to keep going back to absorb the small steps and build. Plus, I have a ton of bad habits so I feel like I can only work on one at a time! I bought this one knowing I'll be referencing it for a very, very long time.

Highly recommend even if you feel like you are perfect and have no bad habits...




The Icepick Surgeon: Murder, Fraud, Sabotage, Piracy, and Other Dastardly Deeds Perpetrated in the Name of Science 
by Sean Kean

Publisher's Summary:

Science is a force for good in the world—at least usually. But sometimes, when obsession gets the better of scientists, they twist a noble pursuit into something sinister. Under this spell, knowledge isn’t everything, it’s the only thing—no matter the cost. Bestselling author Sam Kean tells the true story of what happens when unfettered ambition pushes otherwise rational men and women to cross the line in the name of science, trampling ethical boundaries and often committing crimes in the process.

The Icepick Surgeon masterfully guides the reader across two thousand years of history, beginning with Cleopatra’s dark deeds in ancient Egypt. The book reveals the origins of much of modern science in the transatlantic slave trade of the 1700s, as well as Thomas Edison’s mercenary support of the electric chair and the warped logic of the spies who infiltrated the Manhattan Project. But the sins of science aren’t all safely buried in the past. Many of them, Kean reminds us, still affect us today. We can draw direct lines from the medical abuses of Tuskegee and Nazi Germany to current vaccine hesitancy, and connect icepick lobotomies from the 1950s to the contemporary failings of mental-health care. Kean even takes us into the future, when advanced computers and genetic engineering could unleash whole new ways to do one another wrong.

Unflinching, and exhilarating to the last page, The Icepick Surgeon fuses the drama of scientific discovery with the illicit thrill of a true-crime tale. With his trademark wit and precision, Kean shows that, while science has done more good than harm in the world, rogue scientists do exist, and when we sacrifice morals for progress, we often end up with neither.

My Thoughts:

This is more of a collection of essays that Sam Kean tried really hard to link together as a coherent book. Some chapters were a lot better than others. Towards the end he had some interesting tidbits about modern frauds in science.

I felt like he was a bit hard on science in general which I thought odd for a science author. I also didn't appreciate how every single chapter ended with a plug for more info we subscribe to his podcast...really?

I've really enjoyed Kean's other books but I feel like he's dry on ideas and this is what we get...meh. I'd recommend if you've enjoyed his books.


Aru Shah and the End of Time
 (Pandava#1) by Roshani Chokshi

Publisher's Summary:

Twelve-year-old Aru Shah has a tendency to stretch the truth in order to fit in at school. While her classmates are jetting off to family vacations in exotic locales, she'll be spending her autumn break at home, in the Museum of Ancient Indian Art and Culture, waiting for her mom to return from her latest archeological trip. Is it any wonder that Aru makes up stories about being royalty, traveling to Paris, and having a chauffeur?

One day, three schoolmates show up at Aru's doorstep to catch her in a lie. They don't believe her claim that the museum's Lamp of Bharata is cursed, and they dare Aru to prove it. Just a quick light, Aru thinks. Then she can get herself out of this mess and never ever fib again.

But lighting the lamp has dire consequences. She unwittingly frees the Sleeper, an ancient demon whose duty it is to awaken the God of Destruction. Her classmates and beloved mother are frozen in time, and it's up to Aru to save them.

The only way to stop the demon is to find the reincarnations of the five legendary Pandava brothers, protagonists of the Hindu epic poem, the Mahabharata, and journey through the Kingdom of Death. But how is one girl in Spider-Man pajamas supposed to do all that?

My Thoughts:

This is a re-read with G. It's been so long since we read the first two books that we figured we needed to go back so we can officially finish the series together! 

It is still a fun and clever read. Lots of great action and humor. There are a lot of references that adults will get that I don't think a regular middle schooler would so it's like those Pixar movies: Great for both parents and kids alike.

I'm so glad Rick Riordan has put his brand on these books to help authors share their stories about their folklore, myths, and culture.

The Fervor by Alma Katsu

Publisher's Summary:

A psychological and supernatural twist on the horrors of the Japanese American internment camps in World War II.

1944: As World War II rages on, the threat has come to the home front. In a remote corner of Idaho, Meiko Briggs and her daughter, Aiko, are desperate to return home. Following Meiko's husband's enlistment as an air force pilot in the Pacific months prior, Meiko and Aiko were taken from their home in Seattle and sent to one of the internment camps in the West. It didn’t matter that Aiko was American-born: They were Japanese, and therefore considered a threat by the American government.

Mother and daughter attempt to hold on to elements of their old life in the camp when a mysterious disease begins to spread among those interned. What starts as a minor cold quickly becomes spontaneous fits of violence and aggression, even death. And when a disconcerting team of doctors arrive, nearly more threatening than the illness itself, Meiko and her daughter team up with a newspaper reporter and widowed missionary to investigate, and it becomes clear to them that something more sinister is afoot, a demon from the stories of Meiko’s childhood, hell-bent on infiltrating their already strange world.

Inspired by the Japanese yokai and the jorogumo spider demon, The Fervor explores a supernatural threat beyond what anyone saw coming; the danger of demonization, a mysterious contagion, and the search to stop its spread before it’s too late.

My Thoughts:

I really wanted to love this one. But...Katsu seemed to have a hard time keeping her story ideas together. We followed too many people across too many time frames. And thus each character was give short straw. I just didn't care about what happened. If one wants to read about the Japanese internment camps this is definitely not the book for that. Even the scary elements didn't quite work. 

The ending felt very rushed and those who "helped" at the end? Well, I just don't buy it. A little deus ex machina for me.

It wasn't terrible. But the book is just a bit over 300 pages and it took four weeks for me to finish it. I never got drawn in. Which is so unfortunate. I had high hopes for the plot but it just didn't draw me in.


You Died: An Anthology of the Afterlife
edited by Andrea Purcell and Kel McDonald

Publisher's Summary:

Death—the one aspect of life we all have in common—is waiting for everyone, yet our practices, beliefs, myths, and stories about it are as diverse as we are. You Died celebrates these vibrant cultural expressions of the great equalizer in a thrilling, life-affirming whirlwind of a book, an inspirational volume to be treasured through times of both loss and abundance (and every day in between).

At turns both brazen and insightful, morose and optimistic, You Died asks a wide array of cartoonist newbloods and all-stars to relate their most unforgettable tales of death and what comes next. Filled with beautifully illustrated accounts of grief and mourning, ancient myths, memorial rites around the globe, afterlife in the far reaches of space, and the simple and touching ways both the living and the dead carry on, this lively collection starts a comforting and much-needed dialogue about death as a natural part of life.

Featuring an introduction by death positivity movement pioneer and activist mortician Caitlin Doughty and a murderer’s row of comics talent, including Raina Telgemeier, Shae Beagle, and Lisa Sterle.

My Thoughts:

I'm glad I picked this one up. Overall, it's worth the read even though some of the stories weren't as strong as I was hoping for.

There are a couple in there, though, that made me cry! They open up about grief and death and moving through it all with love and hope. There are one or two that focus on some quirky and interesting historical stuff like how the Victorians dealt with death. And some were just really really confusing and didn't translate well.

Movies Watched:


It takes a match to light a fire

Fire Island 
(2022) on Hulu

My Thoughts:

It was just what I needed: A silly gay romance that hit all the tropes and based on Pride and Prejudice. What's not to love?  


Murder was just the beginning

Death on the Nile
 (2022) on Hulu and HBO Max

My Thoughts:

It was fun. I figured out who done it! lol. Not fantastic but I didn't pay money in the theater so I'm OK watching any and all Agatha Christie book-movie-adaptations where I can find them.



Private detective Easy Rawlins has been caught on the wrong side of the most dangerous secret in town

Devil in a Blue Dress
 (1995) watched on HBO Max

My Thoughts:

Yeah, classic Denzel Washington. Love me some crime noir and so glad I finally watched this! I'd like to read the series as well.



The epic conclusion of the Jurassic era

Jurassic World: Dominion 
(2022). Saw in theater

My Thoughts:

I didn't even see the second one in this series...The first one was bad enough. The only reason I saw it was because of Jeff Goldblum, Sam Neill, and Laura Dern agreed to be in this. They are the only reason to see this mess of a film. It's done. Please oh please do not make any more.

Never talk to strangers

The Black Phone
(2022). Saw in theater.

My Thoughts:

This was sooooo much fun! Ethan Hawke killed it. Yeah, a great horror film to see with friends and lots of others on opening night. It was a great crowd and it was the movie that helped me remember what going to the theater with others is all about. 

The universe is so much bigger than you realize

Everything Everywhere All at Once
(2022). Rented online.

My Thoughts:

This movie just blew me away! It's so weird and visually stunning and it has such a great message about being present for your life. It's the best movie I've seen all year and probably in a very long time. If you only see one movie all year, make sure this is it!

TV Watched:



DH and I binged Amazon's The Terminal List a couple of weekends ago. Highly entertaining but nothing new to say and nothing morally uplifting either. 

Finished up Star Trek: Strange New Worlds on Paramount+. Highly entertaining. Love the characters so far. I hope they can do more episodes per season. This is how we get to know the characters is through character-driven episodes full of strange new worlds and ideas...

And of course, last but not least, Stranger Things season 4 on Netflix with the whole family. Not great but once  again, highly entertaining. I do wish the ending had ended on a more cleaned up note as we head into the fifth and final season.

Working my way through The Orville: New Horizons on Hulu. And rewatching Star Trek: The Next Generation. And FX's What We Do in the Shadows just released its new season! And I just started the second season to Hulu's Only Murders in the Building.


Joining up with Deb from Readerbuzz and her Sunday Salon.